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爱玛的成长日记 Emma's Diary

爱玛 成长 日记 Emma Diary
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August 28

Ten tips to negotiate a 10% pay rise

转英国泰晤斯报

In these times of rising living costs, we could all do with a bit of extra income. But before you storm into your boss’s office and demand a bigger salary, read our top ten tips on becoming a smooth negotiator.

1. Do your homework
Consult job ads, recruiters, and colleagues to find out the pay range for your job.  Then work out the skills you need to claim the top 10 per cent of that pay range.

2. State your objectives clearly
When you ask for a meeting, don’t talk vaguely about "prospects"  - be clear that you want to talk about your contribution to the organisation and that you’re asking for a pay rise.

3. Be clear about what you want
Are you really after a pay rise, or would your life be improved by something else, such as flexible working or more varied work?  Know exactly what you are asking for.

4. Create the right impression
Make sure you look, act and sound like a person already holding down a job paying the kind of salary you want. Don’t try to negotiate a pay rise in an old suit.

5. Make your pitch
Your opening needs to be about your contribution, and not about money.  Talk about what you have added to the role and how you have made a difference.

6. Bid, don’t complain
Managers get defensive when it comes to pay issues.  No matter how carefully you make your case, what they will hear is "I’m unhappy".  Be careful to ensure that you communicate how much you enjoy the job, particularly those parts where you have extended your job content. 

7. Don’t talk about your bottom line
Don't be tempted to talk about what you "need" financially, or about your financial commitments or pressures. Talk about the value you add to the business. 

8. Let your boss shoot first
Keep your cards close to your chest. Try to find out what your employer is prepared to offer before you say what you would like. Even if your employer asks "What did you have in mind?" it’s worth at least one attempt to find out what might be possible.

9. Negotiate like a pro
Don’t believe that the first offer, particularly if it’s made quickly, is the last word.  Relate your proposed total salary in monthly terms to the annual bottom line contribution of the job, and be aware of how much it will cost to replace you.

10. Assert yourself
Stand up for yourself.  Demonstrate exactly the same robustness and negotiation skills your employer expects you to use in the job.

August 21

爱玩的爱玛最不爱睡觉!

爱玛每天最不爱干的事情就是晚上睡觉,自己的小床不睡,为此爸爸只能打地铺。昨天爸爸陪爱玛睡觉,想让妈妈好好休息一下。可小家伙及其不老实。左翻右滚,偶尔还打我俩拳。到后来睁开眼睛一看不是妈妈,就开始嚎啕大哭起来!!最后只能换妈妈来陪她了!
August 20

爱玛的笑话

1,爱玛每天都要妈妈陪着睡觉,所以爸爸只能打地铺了。昨天早上,爱玛醒了在床上直叫妈妈。忽然听到床下一阵响屁,爱玛马上大叫,爸爸,爸爸!按妈妈的话,爱玛听屁声,就知道是爸爸了。
2,每天爱玛都要和妈妈去火车站接爸爸。每次回来的时候如果是爸爸开车,你问她,谁开车啊?她说,爱玛。问她,谁坐车,她回答,爸爸。真希望以后能享福坐我家小魔女的车。
3,爱玛最爱出门玩,去的最多就是阿斯达超市(沃尔玛的英国版),所以在爱玛英语词汇里ASDA排在前5位。(Apple, byebye, no, ASDA)
 
July 18

中餐馆的幸运饼干中了23万英镑的乐透奖 (Fortune cookie lives up to its name)

今天的新闻,一个英国人用四年前在希腊旅游时候,中餐馆给的幸运饼干赢了23万多的头奖。看来买彩票也得持之以恒啊!

A lottery winner hit the jackpot using numbers from a fortune cookie. Danny Williams scooped a share of the £2,355,880 top prize with numbers from the complimentary snack. He had used the numbers 11, 12, 22, 23, 24 and 36 which were printed on a slip from a fortune cookie which was handed to him four years ago at a Chinese restaurant in Greece

 
July 14

工作 (Work)

早上在上班的火车上看到一个IT哥们写的文章,很有感触!
Pay increments and promotions are very nice, but what matters most is that I wake up in the morning wanting to go to work, and that at the end of the month there is enough money in the bank to pay the bills!
涨工资和升职固然重要,但最重要的当我早上醒来的时候向往去工作,而且月底会有足够的工资偿付所有的账单!
July 07

Shared Lunch (AA制的午餐)

最近英国的经济受到美国的影响,物价飞涨,尤其是油价突破£1.20一升了。一起工作的同志提议大家一起去超市买东西分享!目标是每人只花1镑钱!
今天的最终费用是每人£1.32,消费地点Morrison:  1/3法国长面包,1.66个春卷,5/6个鸡腿,两杯果汁,一根香蕉。
 
July 03

CIO spotlight (有感于最近读到一个CIO采访)

最近在看我们公司的computer weekly杂志。其中以关于采访CIO篇章格外有意思。这期采访的是个提供文件和工作流系统公司的女CIO。结尾的建议很有意思。
Finally, she advocates being proactive and networking as much as possible. "I suspect my career was a bit of a slow starter as I worked on the basis that if you deliver what's needed, you'll be recognised. But I suddenly realised that you can do a good job and no-one necessarily notices, so that's where networking comes in. Identifying and aligning yourself with key players is very important."
 
June 30

夏天的周末

最近英国的天气出奇的好,连续的大晴天,温度也不错,保持在25度左右。周六和朋友去钓鱼/龙虾,烧烤,打麻将,玩wii fit。周天又去农场,摘草莓,蔬菜,看足球。
小姑娘高兴坏了,尤其是看别人玩wii fit,摇头晃屁股的,大笑不止!自己还主动要求上去顶足球。(照片,录像一会补上)
 
我啃啃啃    看到我摘得草莓了吗 
做童工可真不容易啊    哈哈哈,我是西瓜太妹!
June 16

父亲节!

昨天是英国的父亲节,爱玛狠狠的亲了我一口!(还夸张的咋咋响)
June 13

最近有点不顺!

最近家里的事情比较多,匆匆回了趟国。结果回来两个人都不约而同的生病了。最糟糕的事,好像还传染上了爱玛。小家伙这两天都有点拉肚子,哎。。。希望她能早点好起来!按照奶奶的话,现在脸上就剩下双大眼睛了。
昨天带爱玛出门和周围的小朋友玩,小家伙不知道是听不懂英语还是害羞的缘故,显得胆子很小。还好小朋友都很友善,一会儿就熟悉上了!
 
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